my pally is lvl 60 ret/holy i like to heal but havent found any good healer gear due to not over lvl 60 but i heard from a few people that holy pallys if built right can do more damage than ret pallys i reset my holy tree please what is the build for a dps/healer tree holy pally not ret or prot only holy if u cant right it just send a link to a site that has the build or something and thanks

There is no such build. Holy paladins cannot do more damage that retri paladins.
I think you have heard of the Shockadin build, referring to an offensive holy paladin spec relying on the Holy shock spell to do damage. They also use judgement and exorcism can now be used with the latest talent changes.
There are many ways to build this in cataclysm as you level to 85 but the key talents would be "Blazing Light", "Denounce" and "Infusion of Light". If you are healing as well, perhaps in a PvP situation, "Daybreak" can also be considered as damage dealing.

My main is a Holy Paladin, I do not play Shockadin although I use these talents in my Holy PvP spec.

If you want to do damage as a paladin though you should consider the Retri talents. The concept of Holy doing more damage than Retri is wrong. Holy can do "some" damage, much like all the other healers in the game, which in no way can do more damage than their dps trees.
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