Long story short, me and my ex of 2 years broke up about 3 months ago. He's been dating this girl for 2 months now, and after 1 month got engaged. Btw they're 18. I think they're rushing so he can get over me. But anyways, me and him hadn't talked in about a month until last night. We caught up, talked for 4 hrs on the phone, cried remminising on memories. He says he's happy with her but will always love me and thinks about me. Today I asked him to come visit me and he did. Basically we ended up kissing and did it for a minute. He says feels bad but there's something about me he's stuck on. We can't be together cuz we fought too much and he's happy with her. And said doesn't wanna have sex anymore cuz he would feel bad like he's using me and wants to remain best friends. So could be come back maybe? Thoughts on this? Thanks!!

Yes, both you and your ex-boyfriend have been together for two years, but the two of you haven't gotten over each other. The memories are there, and so are the good times, and the two of you are having a difficult time moving on with each others' lives.

Honestly, your ex-boyfriend is in a rush to get married, because he's having a hard time moving on with his life, since he can't get you out of his mind! The two of you had argued a lot, and he's using that reason to his advantage, so he can find a way to be with someone and avoid being alone. He needs to understand that there's nothing wrong with being alone, and he doesn't have to settle for anything.

You do want to maintain a friendship with your ex-boyfriend, and that's the decision that the two of you have made. You deserve to be happy, and you deserve to move on with your life, and your ex-boyfriend isn't the only man in this world. Get out there and meet new people.